Yeah some guys be like that,. Im still preop but hoping to complete that step soon. The best guy that I was ever w/ so far, was one who could get hard. However he knew all the right moves, and I made certain that he and possibly a couple of his neighbors knew I was having a great time ;) One of the best parts was also laying there afterwards. Not really cuddling but just close enough to touch each other :) You say that he stopped for food but didnt even offer you anything thing?? What an uncaring turd :( One of the best times I had w/ a FWB was the first time that we "slept together". Not overnite, but just nodded off for a few after sex. Thats an incredible feeling of intimacy :)