…nguage as the ‘new standard’ for everyone is more problematic than most activists would acknowledge. For example, a form that describes everyone who had given birth in their lives as a ‘birthing parent’, and allows the choice of ‘mother’ only as a subset of ‘birthing parent’, implies that ‘mother’ is only a subset of ‘birthing parent’, which challenges traditional notions of motherhood going back to the earliest civilizations. A form that uses ‘mother’ by default, but allows changes when used by trans men, would imply something very different, that motherhood is still a concept that stands alone, and is not part of some ‘birthing parent’ umbrella. As you can see, the approach of applying the new terminology to everyone is going to offend many mo…
