What should we call them? How about, normal? As is so often the case, my first time w/ a guy was years(decades) ago, w a close firend when we were both teenagers. I was never ashamed or worried that it might, "make me Gay". A few years after HS, I got married, still am 38 yrs. When I transtioned a few years ago, I did not initially experience any changes to my sexuality, until about a year ago when I started to become attracted to guys. So far its just been a few physical encounters. Im not sure if I could fall in love w/ a man, and frankly the thought of something like that, scares the sh*t out of me.