Thats great that your parents connected playing, "doctor" he he. Wayy back when I was 12, over 50 years ago, my first serious crush was with a girl who had a serious tom boy vibe; "dutch boy" hair cut, wore jeans and tees. The only time I ever saw her in a dress was directly following her Confirmation. I think she may have even quit Girl Scout because they didnt have the pant suit uniform yet,. We lost touch but I always held a torch for her,,. Side note(?) back then was also when I first started trying on my Moms lingerie. Seriously shameful for a "boy" to be doing something that. But there were simply no words back then to explain those things,. When I met my Wife(still married BTW) after HS, She ALSO had a butch vibe; Had nice long hair but always wore it in a tight bum, and was very competitive in sports, even played semi pro basketball,,. Other side note(?), back when I was clearing out my Dads place after he passed, I came across some porn that clearly indicated to me that he was either Gay or had a serious Bi streak,. Theres that "gay gene theory" again,,. My Mom used to quip, that if theres anything "weird" about, Steve, he got it from his, Father. We used to laugh about that, but in the back of my head I always was thinking, did that mean my Dad was a Bisexual Transvestite?? Not quite, however I guess my Mom knew what was going on, but couldnt bring herself to say it,,. And thats the way it was,, :)