Thank you for being a research subject of, one. Your story does point out the disparities how sexually issues, between men and women are viewed in our society. But I also suspect that we need to make greater distinctions between, desire/drive, arrousal, and being able to climax. When I was impersonating a guy, sex was largely something like stopping at a fast food drive up; Order, pay, pick up, and leave. But as a Transgender woman(still preop), sex is a FAR more complex and extended event. I find that desire and arousal to (still)be fairly easy. Partly perhaps as Im finally able to be the "saucey wench"(arrr') I always wanted to be :) However, being able to climax/orgasm is often MUCH more illusive. The upside(?) to that is its no longer the end all point of it. Its absolutely fabulous when it happens, but Id much rather focus on my partner's pleasure, when I am w/ one ;)