Some of these "reveal parties" are wayy over the top, and IMHO may in a few instances be making some incorrect assumptions,,. Whatever happended to simply wanting a baby thats healthy, w/ 10 toes and 10 fingers, etc? In the new Amazon movie, Uncle Frank theres a hilarious scene an hour in from the start, where we see this young boy(?) who likes wearing his Mom's heals. The Mom is totally clueless, but my first thought when I saw this was, yeah she will find out in another 10-20 years what really is going on,,.