Part of the reason why these various "gender bender" stories scare us is they validate what is known to some as, Autogynephilia. Though in our defense, we also know that Cis women get turned on by certain erotica/romance stories,. Ive known for years that I was drawn to any kind of story that described the physical and emotional sensations of sex and romantic desire from a Cis womens POV. Being Trans is a very cerebral experience as well as a physical one.