One slang term that I cometely hate seeing or reading is, "sissy". I see it used a lot on some Gay and Trans dating sites. Sissy is something that I heard quie often as a kid. Mind you, those using it now may likely have a more fetishised intentions, rather than seeking a relationship. My take on it is simply to say that I am nobody's, sissy. I am an out, loud , and proud Trans woman, hear me roar :)