One bit of feedback, as to anattomy, and this may differ w/ other Trans Women. While I still have my penis, for now, there are a few very important things to know: 1, After 3 years of being on Estrogen, it doesnt LOOK very much like a penis, size wise. 2, It doesnt WORK very much like a penis, in terms of getting hard. And most importantly 3, Ive got ZERO desire to use it as a penis. To me its just a rahter large clit, that I happen to be able to pee thru :)