Oh my, I am sooo jealous, (faux rant), hehe :) You go Gurl and find Mr Right ;) Hopefully I will be right behind you shortly :) FWIW, I have a BF who I have been seeing for about a year now. We are not "exclusive" but we have fun together and share a couple of technical interests. So Im sure that we would still be friends even if we werent hopping in/out of bed too :) BTW, did I mention that Im married(yes, to a Cis woman)?? She has met my BF and is largely fine w/ him. She knows that he doesnt threaten any part of the relationship that we have shared for almost40 years now :) And I guess he helps keep me (more) monogamous than I otherwise might be,; 2 years ago when my sexuality first flipped, I was a bit of a "slut",,. I sometimes ask myself how closely does my new sexuality match that of a Cis/genetic woman, and its not just some kind of sophisticated, fetish(See; Amanda Roman on this one,) Being AMAB, I know that I was socialized differently, and Im possibly more "open" to whom I might share myself w/. Though I do enjoy being in a relationship as opposed to "hookup culture" Dont tell anyone please, but I guess Im kind of old fashion, hehe. And I now finally get it, that having a feeling of trust and being safe w/ someone is just as important as physical attraction is. I also know that Ive never had to live w/ the basic reality that for much of my adult life, every (heterosexual) encounter I have could lead to an unplanned pregnancy.. TBH, I think in a few ways we Trans Gurls even have a bit of an extra cache' over many Cis women.