My point was merely that cross dressing as seen form the perspective of a male identity/sexuality is usually seen as and produces the same feelings(arousal). I first ried on my Moms things when I was only 10. I cant say that what I felt was arousal, it simply made me feel, special. A bit further along as a Teen and adult, there was a fetish aspect to it,. Fast forward 40 years to when I began fully presenting as female, and going out in public dressed. I started to realize this was who I was, and the fetish aspect of it very quickly disappeared,. 5 years ago I began HRT and a year later transitioned to living full time/legally as a woman. It is interesting as Ive known for a while now, that Cis women often feel the same kind of sexual "charge" , however when viewed through the lens of a female sexuality, its never considered to be any sort of fetish,,.