Jas, A girls firs time should always be w/ someone special. Im sure that you will find some thats perfect for you, good luck :) I may be putting the cart before the horse, but Ive already got someone picked out for myself. Hes my current FWB, he already took my "2nd virginity"(TMI?), and as it turns out Im not a big fan of, which makes getting a vagina even more an imperative,,. Heres hoping :) Per your comment about people being, Bi, Yes most people ARE Bi, But most, especially guys, would NEVER admit it,. See, Kinsey Scale or Bell-curve: http://www.bisexualindex.org.uk/index.php/Curves