" it flipped some sort of primordial switch inside me. THIS, I told myself, THIS is the most intimate, sensual, satisfying, desirable physical act I could ever imagine." James, I TOTALLY agree w/ you. Theres something about giving oral that is incredibly intimate, whether it be giving to a male OR (another) female, :) Offhand, I find guys to be a lot more "work". Where as woman is fairly easy,. Instinct perhaps? BTW, I recall the story about your early experience which is similar to my own :) Ive since reconnected w/ this special person from my past, through he lives many miles away,,.