Im sure youve heard the old joke; How do you spot a cross dresser in a shopping mall? Ans, Shes the one wearing a ball gown. Im sure that weve all done it at some point,,. The first few trepidous steps out in the wild, in broad daylight, can often be nerve wraking,,,. Advice to any newbies out there; Dress for the weather, the venue(location and activity), and you age. Stay safe, but most of all, have FUN :)