If you dont like the dripping, yeah wear a thin pad,. Otherwise, just me, the thought of carrying my Mans "seed" around and being reminded about it by feeling it seep out of me, souds really HOT. Note to self, must work on getting that vahjajay this year ;) As for the discomfort, maybe its just the differences in PH(yours vs his) fighting each other,. Your you could be alergic to it, does happen. Have you noticed this w/ other lovers?