I wouldnt necessarily say, "more" or even better(though I have some personal bias in that direction ;) ) than a Cis woman, but simply that we are "different" and as such bring certain qualities to a relationship that arent often seen in Cis women. And its wonderful that some guys are able to notice that, and not just see us as something to satisfy a fetish or to be ashamed to be seen w/ us. Yes it can often be a delicate balance between being Ultra Femm and being one of his guy friends,. I love being seen as a Lady, but also, isnt just being friends supposed to be a major part of how a great relationship works? I was chating w/ a male friend the other nite, listening to him talk about industrial boiler systems that was fascinating. And I have another friend who I love to chat about radio and electronics stuff w/. The same applies in my professional life, working in a largely male environment, where I still want to be taken seriously and able to make valuable contributions, all the while given some deference to me as a female.