I wonder how many of your old friends you might run into over on, Silver Daddies(dating site for older Gay men)? 37 yrs ago when my Wife and I were first together(still are BTW), my Mom used to make this quip; If theres anything weird about (my former male name), then he got it from his Father,,. We used to laugh about it, but every time Id hear it, in the back of my head Id think, does that mean my Dad was a Bisexual Transvestite(language of the day)?? Fast forward several years later when I was clearing out my Dads place after he had passed. I came across some porn that indicated at the very least he had a serious Bi streak, or was Gay(I kept the porn BTW,). I wasnt entirely surprised by this, and it has never changed how I felt towards him.