I will add that I am still attracted to females, both Cis AND Trans. However my primary attraction is for guys,. Ive always had a bit of a general curriouslty about male genitals, but how I want the whole package. Even guys w/ "dad bods" are yummy,. While the physical and emotional attraction is vrey real, maybe as Im still married and plan to stay that way, the thought of falling in love w/ a guy scares the hell out of me.