I recall when I first began transitioning, where the effects of HRT were starting to “develop”, having guys holding doors open for me initially freaked me out a bit. But I learned to embrace it after awhile,. However in a slightly different setting one time, a guy at work decided to assist me lifting my laptop bag(more like, portable office) w/o first asking, I responded w/ a quick, NO. As I saw it, in a professional setting I was still his equal on all levels,. This can sometime be an difficult thing to navigate, whether you are Trans or Cis,,.