File under: Lesbian Groundhog Day. This seems to have been my continuing history from my early Butch crush, to recently a with close friend :) Perhaps this also explains why "T4T(Trans 4 Trans) relationships are so common,. Even if it sometimes seems I was the last one to get the memo on that one,. Being w/ another Trans woman, you share common goals, feelings, and experiences. Someone who completely "gets" who you are without ANY shame or being concerned that you are merely seen as someones, fetish. Or, that you ARE your own fetish,.