a good vibe can often be VERY helpful here too. As I often describe the effects of HRT to other just starting out; You are slowly trading you trading your male sexuality w/ a female version,,. Long gone is the 10 min quickie. Be prepared for a long slog, of upwards of an hour or more. And if its to your liking, and (legally)available where you reside, a bit of 420 can be VERY helpful here too ;) Later this month, I will be 3 years post Orchi. You will not blieve how getting my "stones" gone changed(for the better) my E-Gasms